the EX model should have one already. should either be somewhere in the center console or they like to hide them in the armrest compartment. there is a way to add one but your stock radio would have to support one.
i might have to take a look in the ones at work tomorrow because there should be one especially in the EX. i'll even take a picture of it for you if i find it.
I have an 08 and it is in the center console, bottom half, if you look at night, the letters AUX light up... its to the left of the Power Outlet. if you want a picture send me your e-mail address and ill send one.