Not sucking the fluid back into the radiator from the reservoir has nothing to do with the pressure rating of the cap.
There is a small non-return/check/vacuum relief valve in the cap that allows fluid to be drawn back into the radiator.
There's three seals that you need to check, one that seals the pressure in the system, one that seals the top of the radiator cap from atmosphere, and one that seals the check valve.
For it to draw fluid back in, the system must be 100% purged of all air - did you fully bleed the system?
What does a radiator cap do? The radiator cap maintains a constant cooling system pressure while allowing coolant to flow back and forth to the overflow or resevoir tank. As coolant heats it contracts. The cap acts as a two way valve the allows coolant to flow to and from the overflow.
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