OK, at the DLC connector under the hood, you will be putting the "paper clip" (or jumper wire) into terminals 5 and 17. I know, you don't know where terminals 5 and 17 are. Well, if you're looking at the connector with the notch at the top, terminal 5 is the far LEFT of the CENTER row. Terminal 17 is the fourth terminal from the RIGHT in the BOTTOM row.
After the jumper is in place, turn the ignition on, but don't start it.
Press the LOCK button of the remote two times.
Turn the ignition switch "OFF" and take out the key.
Remove the jumper and make sure the remote works.